Well, I went on two Match dates this week (I know, look at me go!) first one was…promising to start but the guy blew it, by making comments about how he was checking out my butt when it was my turn to bowl, and before that he just casually mentioned how he was out on anger match date last week. Like oh, we talk about who else we are dating already?? Weird.

but, other than that things were ok, so I agreed to go play pool with him. There was a drunk chick there, who said he was staring at my butt everytime I took a turn. Then he basically launched himself at me once we got in the car to drive him back across the street to his car. So I was like, okay, I guess we will kiss now! I mean, before I even got my keys in the ignition.

then when we were driving he made some comment about how we should probably only work out together after we have sex. Like, oh, now we are definitely having sex? What? So huge turn off. Get to his car and he tried to turn a good night kiss into a make out session, attempting to take my coat off etc. i had to kind of break off the kissing … Twice.

decided not to see him again, even though he asked why, the all but begged my forgiveness.

date with guys number two:

we decide to meet for coffee. 4 hours later… We end the date. Time flew by 🙂 just talking. When I first saw him I thought, way cuter in person! Good dresser, work out (crossfit) , and he is super charismatic. Great talker. Likes to tell stories. Cute laugh that takes over a room. Boundless energy. He is merry! mechanic for the past seven years, firefighter for the past two, wants to go full time with that and will, lives in town, active… Yeah. Just seems like a great guy. Someone I’d be happy to bring around my family. Proud to be with in general. 

I feel energized after the date and am on edge about hoping it’s him every time the phone goes… Then I get a text about how he had a great time, best date all year, and how he thinks I’m beautiful 🙂 yay!!  Here we go…hold on readers it could be a fun ride 😉


First super exciting match.com date

Match.com date number two… Ding ding ding! We have a winner. Okay, so it’s too soon to tell, but I’m in serious like. First, I find him incredibly attractive. I think most females would. Muscles, million dollar smile, strong jaw line, deep set brown eyes. 6’2″.

And, we have the same background in tough things we have dealt with. Instant connection there. He seems to be pretty into me, texting all day, …invited me back to his place and I went, but I did not hook up with him at all. So difficult because it was like walking away from a gorgeous sexy man who is all bedroom eyes and lazy smile.

Anyway… We will see. God knows how long I can hold out with this hunk of gorgeous man meat. But at least three dates. Ughhh I don’t knowww!!!

So I do have another date scheduled for Sunday but now I don’t even want to go.


The Bachelor, and I’m back in the Match.com Trenches

Ok, so I’ve been quiet for a bit, but it’s because I’ve been under deadline at my new job (woo hoo, new job) and… in the trenches! Yep, I’ve been “dating” up a storm. I signed back on to Match.com. Honestly, I really wish I could just meet my guy the traditional way, but it’s not panning out so far, so I guess I will resign myself to the Internet and hope he finds me that way.

Before I get into that, I want to talk about the Bachelor. Specifically, Tierra on the Bachelor.

She went home on the most recent episode, and she was crying in the car about how she hopes the other girls are happy and so on. Now, to be told, I was not totally sold she was as bad as the girls made her out  to be – I mean, dating is hard enough. If you really like someone, and you know all these other beautiful, smart women are after him too, how do you NOT go crazy? I’m not calling her crazy. I honestly don’t really think she is. I just think she did happen to run into a lot of drama, and maybe it wasn’t mean to be for her and the Bachelor. Did she create it? I don’t know, I don’t think anyone deserves that much credit.

Granted, every other woman made the best of the situation and tried to bond with the other females in the house in whatever manner. Personally I would be weirded out by the whole thing. Us women get mad enough when there is ONE other woman, let along a whole houseful!

Anyway, on to my dating life. Match.com. Yep, back on it. Went out with a guy on Sunday who seemed so promising offline..but there was something weird about it, because he had no apprehension about staying up til 3 am talking on chat the first day we talked… I did it because I was dealing with some SUPER psycho guy who, just became GM of the trainers at the gym I went to, long story short I agreed to be friends, he didn’t REALLY want to be friends and was unstable…so two weeks in it got crazyyyy…

I’m talking 14 emails one day, I didn’t count how many the next, about how great I am and then how I’m going to burn in hell for being selfish and uncaring, and every email kept saying “this is the last email you’ll get. Lose my number” and so on.

Anyway back to Sunday date guy. No chemistry in person. He was giving me dopey eyes the whole time and I was just like, be normal – you can’t be this in love in one date. So, wasn’t feeling it. Plus he pushed us meeting, I was still sick from a cold and kept trying to push back but he wanted to hang out on a Sunday afternoon… and he had his friend drop him at my place… because he supposedly couldn’t get his car out? IDK. Anyways.

He also tried to get me to kiss him, which when I’m still coughing up a lung, is just unsanitary.

So, I’m emailing with a few guys right now, we will see… I just wanna meet that guy you know? But I think I’m getting close. I can feel it.