The Bachelor, and I’m back in the Match.com Trenches

Ok, so I’ve been quiet for a bit, but it’s because I’ve been under deadline at my new job (woo hoo, new job) and… in the trenches! Yep, I’ve been “dating” up a storm. I signed back on to Match.com. Honestly, I really wish I could just meet my guy the traditional way, but it’s not panning out so far, so I guess I will resign myself to the Internet and hope he finds me that way.

Before I get into that, I want to talk about the Bachelor. Specifically, Tierra on the Bachelor.

She went home on the most recent episode, and she was crying in the car about how she hopes the other girls are happy and so on. Now, to be told, I was not totally sold she was as bad as the girls made her out  to be – I mean, dating is hard enough. If you really like someone, and you know all these other beautiful, smart women are after him too, how do you NOT go crazy? I’m not calling her crazy. I honestly don’t really think she is. I just think she did happen to run into a lot of drama, and maybe it wasn’t mean to be for her and the Bachelor. Did she create it? I don’t know, I don’t think anyone deserves that much credit.

Granted, every other woman made the best of the situation and tried to bond with the other females in the house in whatever manner. Personally I would be weirded out by the whole thing. Us women get mad enough when there is ONE other woman, let along a whole houseful!

Anyway, on to my dating life. Match.com. Yep, back on it. Went out with a guy on Sunday who seemed so promising offline..but there was something weird about it, because he had no apprehension about staying up til 3 am talking on chat the first day we talked… I did it because I was dealing with some SUPER psycho guy who, just became GM of the trainers at the gym I went to, long story short I agreed to be friends, he didn’t REALLY want to be friends and was unstable…so two weeks in it got crazyyyy…

I’m talking 14 emails one day, I didn’t count how many the next, about how great I am and then how I’m going to burn in hell for being selfish and uncaring, and every email kept saying “this is the last email you’ll get. Lose my number” and so on.

Anyway back to Sunday date guy. No chemistry in person. He was giving me dopey eyes the whole time and I was just like, be normal – you can’t be this in love in one date. So, wasn’t feeling it. Plus he pushed us meeting, I was still sick from a cold and kept trying to push back but he wanted to hang out on a Sunday afternoon… and he had his friend drop him at my place… because he supposedly couldn’t get his car out? IDK. Anyways.

He also tried to get me to kiss him, which when I’m still coughing up a lung, is just unsanitary.

So, I’m emailing with a few guys right now, we will see… I just wanna meet that guy you know? But I think I’m getting close. I can feel it.