Dear Universe

Dear Universe:

I’ve done this before, I’m doing it again because maybe my last one got lost in the universal mail system. Anyway, I’m ready to be in love again. That’s right. And I want that person to also be in love with me. That’s a requirement. I’d like something that can work out long term, someone I can laugh with, who will love my pets as much as I do. A companion, a best friend, and a lover. Obviously there has to be attraction, but I’ll let you decide what’s best for me on everything else. Bring me my man. And have him be ready, too.

Love,

Me

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Back to the drawing board!

Heyyy beautiful readers,

So, yeah, seems like mr wonderful went completely AWOL. Doesn’t even care to get his ray ban glasses back! So I will be putting them up for sale on eBay. Lol. My friends said good frames can earn some cash and then people just get new lenses to match their prescription.

Anywho, talking to this new guy from match who seems legit. We will see. It seems like a lot of guys from online are pretty flaky. Let’s just call it datesforflakes.com instead shall we?

So this new guy, tattoos, works out, just sold his house looking to buy another, low key lifestyle, and seems attractive, but I haven’t met him yet. Potentially sometime this week. But it kind of seems like he stopped texting as much after we became facebook friends, which I have never had happen before. Then again it was also the same day he sold his place and he doesn’t have a new place to live yet, so im sure he’s trying to secure a new place to live haha.

There is this other guy I’m talking to who is very funny but I don’t know if he is my type…faux hawk.

Oh, and blast from the past guy who I was supposed to go out with Sunday night ended up canceling because apparently his mom wanted help moving stuff and didn’t tell him until Sunday. ??? No idea. Whatever. It was a little weird anyway because apparently he made reservations for this downtown nice French restaurant and he texted me Sat night saying he had an awful night at work and could really use a good Sunday and, so I said hopefully it will be! And no response. Plus he never called me. Kind of odd right? Anyway.

Sometimes I wonder if it’s because of my pets that I have a harder time dating than others… Like, I have two dogs and a cat. I guess that’s a lot to walk into? Idk. I’m just trying to live my life to the fullest and if I had a steady boyfriend I maybe never would have gotten a dog to begin with at this stage in my life.

I’ve also really gotten into working out lately-I’m following Jamie Eason’s bodybuilding.com plan, and boy is it a workout! I’ve never lifted like this but I’m loving it. Hopefully I see the changes in my body that I want to.

Ok that’s all for tonight. Love yas!

False alarm

Sigh… Not again.

So, he dropped off my dog Saturday morning and I never heard from him again. I texted him Monday from the airport, and he was ice, but didn’t mention anything about seeing each other again. He texted me tues to see if I got in ok, again nice but no asking to see me, I called him at 8:30 no answer no call back no text back, left a message saying thanks again for taking care of Benji and just wanted to switch to phone so I could hear his voice since I hadn’t talked to him in a little while, and…like I said, nothing.

So. Freaking. Weird.

So I leave it for a day text him on thurs to tell him his glasses are at my house, he’s like oh I’ve been looking for those, but no talk of getting them or hanging out. Nice, but surface talk. He asked how my week has been and I eventually asked him if he got my voicemail, he said yeah and just been busy with work then said the next two months are the busiest.

Okay…

I mean after telling his mom dad and grandma about me I think he should at least tell me what’s up. And the last time saying he wants me to believe this can work.

Maybe he met someone else while I was gone…? Idk.

In the meantime, this guy Sean came back from the past out of nowhere, and he is really excited to take me out. Not sure why. I’ll find out on Sunday. Here’s what I remember about him: super cute, great body (I hit on him at the gym, ha) and pretty aggressive about sex. So I kind of broke it off, and he said he missed my smile and I didn’t buy it.

But whatever maybe a highly sexually charged relationship is exactly what I need, since it doesn’t matter apparently if you try to abide by the 5th date rule (my friend and I are that up) or fucking any guy who wants to take you home, they STiLL don’t stick around.

My friend thinks this guy was maybe just about sex too but maybe was willing to try a little harder. So when he didn’t get it he bailed, and the taking care of my dog thing was a decoy to make me think he was a good guy and get laid before I went on vacation.

Legit tho no idea.

Well….on to the next one!!

Might have found a good fish

Gooood morning lovely readers! I write to you this morning from Boston Logan airport, because today we leave for San Diego for the weekend in order to celebrate one of my best friend’s bachelorette!!

I haven’t written in a while, and it’s mainly because I’ve been busy with the ore-wedding stuff this month (not mine, duh… Not yet 😉 ) and also doing the online dating thing. Which, I’m still amazed at what happens out there, but it’s so much easier to not take it personally when people haven’t actually met you yet.

So I’ve been seeing this guy for almost two weeks, not a long time but we see each other during the week and talk every day. This guy is unlike pretty much any other guy I’ve dated. He is older, 33, which everyone always said I should date older but I never met an older guy I was into.

He is very attractive, takes care of himself (ladies, I’m talking has abs and like, you can see the veins on top of his abs. I only know that cause he lifted up his shirt last night a bit so I stole a peek. And was like: :0. Gulp. Act normal. And then immediately thought that I need to lose 5-10 lol to match him.

He also just bought a condo, drives a Mercedes, comes from a good family, and is a good person inside. So I’m like, what do you like about me???? Hahaha. Jk. I’m awesome, duh. But seriously, he just seems like a fit. Like, we belong together, type deal.

..it’s funny he talked to me last night about how why I seemed pessimistic about things working out, because he asked me if my dad knew about him and I said not yet–and joked that I like to wait til it’s after 3 months since I want to be sure it’s going to last. Everyone else knows though, and he said I need to believe that it’s going to or it won’t work. Like, basically said (my name): your walls suck.

Which of course makes me want to believe even more. Oh and he is affectionate and young at heart, you would never know his age if you looked at him or knew about his life. But, he wants to settle down-no problem talking about “if you moved in with me” etc etc …and his whole family knows about me. Like, including his grandma. Lol. And he isn’t weird about it I think he just REALLY likes me.

So sex thing: since it’s online, it’s always tough to judge when to sleep with someone, because they could be lining up other dates and not think anything of it. So, I’ve managed to hold him off so far. Which means… 4 diff times we’ve gone on dates. Then last night was the first time we were in my room, and things heated up a little, but all clothing stayed on. I think we both know it’s not gonna stop if we go there. But, he has no problem waiting. So I think I’m going to try the whole, we need to be exclusive first thing. ??? But part of me thinks I don’t have to. We will see

…so by now you’re probably thinking ummm, who is this guy and what’s his flaw? My thoughts exactly. Idk. Maybe someone upstairs finally said, ok, enough’s enough. Let’s call in a winner.

Side note, he is taking care of one of my dogs for half of this weekend… 🙂 super bonus points!